So yesterday, I was talking to my friend and/or mortal enemy (I don't think we actually decided the status of our relationship) and he was all disgruntled because women have the right to say no to sex. Which of course, made me laugh. But after that, it made me think. Because now, men feel like they have to draw up contracts and have lawyers present just to make sure they get some. The irony in that is that I'm not even talking about single men because sadly, there are more than enough loose bitches in the world to keep them occupied. I'm talking about men who are in committed relationships, married men or whatever the equivalent of that is for someone who doesn't believe in marriage. But for the men who are with their woman and have been for a while and don't plan on going anywhere in the near future, call me old fashioned but I think it goes without saying that they should get it when they want it. And I'll probably get a lot of shit from women for saying that but let's just think about it.
God put man on this earth and then he put woman here so that man shouldn't be lonely. Back in the days, it was man's job to provide for his family and it was woman's job to use those provisions to take care of the family and that includes her man. That was her sole purpose. In this day and age, things are very different. But ask yourself why. If you think about it, it's because women wanted to do more. Women wanted to vote and go to school and work and play a more active role in their communities and do all these things and I'm not saying they're wrong for that at all because I love the fact that I have all these freedoms. What I'm saying is that we should remember our job. The fact that we picked up some overtime was a choice that we made but you can't neglect your actual job in favor of overtime because I'm pretty sure you'd get fired from life. So you can't go to work and be superwoman for the rest of the world and then get home and ignore your man and mistreat your kids because you're too tired. But also, if a man gets a woman who does her job flawlessly, he can't complain that she's not picking up any overtime. It's all about the compromise, folks. What you're willing to sacrifice and what you absolutely refuse to live without.